Your guide to recovery and caring for yourself at home
Congratulations on the birth of your baby! Your body has been through something extraordinary. This guide will help you understand what to expect during your recovery and when to seek medical attention.
| Medication | Dose | Schedule |
|---|---|---|
| Paracetamol BF SAFE | 1 g (2 tablets) | Every 6 hours (max 4 g/day) |
| Ibuprofen BF SAFE | 400 mg | Every 6โ8 hours with food |
Take regularly for the first 2โ3 days โ don't wait for pain to build. Avoid codeine and tramadol while breastfeeding. Ibuprofen is especially effective for afterpains and perineal swelling.
No tampons, intercourse, or douching for 6 weeks. Sexual activity may resume once bleeding has stopped and the perineum has healed. A water-based lubricant may help with dryness.
| When | What to Expect |
|---|---|
| Days 1โ3 | Dark red, heavy flow. Small clots are normal. |
| Days 3โ10 | Pinkish-brown, lighter. May increase with activity or feeding. |
| Day 10โ14 | Yellowish-white. May briefly increase when placental scab separates. |
| Up to 6โ8 weeks | Minimal, light discharge. Gradually stops completely. |
For engorgement: warm compress before feeds, cold compress between feeds, frequent feeding. Seek help for persistent pain during feeding, difficulty latching, or red/hot/painful breast area with fever (mastitis).
| Timeframe | Activity Level |
|---|---|
| Days 1โ3 | Gentle walking. Rest when baby sleeps. Begin pelvic floor exercises. |
| Weeks 1โ2 | Short daily walks. Light stretching. No strenuous activity. |
| Weeks 4โ6 | Moderate exercise with clearance. Swimming once bleeding stops. |
| 6+ weeks | Gradual return to higher-impact exercise. Assess pelvic floor first. |
Contraception: You can conceive as early as 3 weeks postpartum. Discuss options before discharge or at your postnatal visit.
Tighten the muscles around the vagina and anus as if stopping wind. Hold for as long as you can (work up to 10 seconds). Relax slowly, then repeat.
Baby blues affect up to 80% of mothers โ mood swings, tearfulness, and irritability peaking around day 4 and resolving within 2 weeks.
Postpartum depression (10โ20% of mothers) persists beyond 2 weeks with sustained sadness, hopelessness, difficulty bonding, or withdrawal. This is not your fault โ help is available.
| Visit | Purpose |
|---|---|
| Day 3 | Wound check, feeding assessment, baby check |
| Day 6 | Recovery assessment, mood screening |
| 6 Weeks | Full postnatal check โ physical recovery, pelvic floor, contraception, emotional wellbeing |